On average, noise coming through a ceiling is the worst soundproofing problem you’re likely to encounter. The reason is two-fold.
First, the hard flooring choices of today don’t help the noise control problem at all. Carpet and pad is used to reduce a lot of the
noise. Hardwood, linoleum and tile are not the friends of the neighbour below. Second, a footfall introduces a great deal of energy into a
very small cross section of floor. This can overwhelm many common soundproofing efforts. Here’s what you’re up against.
Imagine your neighbour’s footstep hitting the floor above. This large amount of vibration will race through the flooring above and
start entering your ceiling framing. The framing is VERY conductive, so vibration passes through very easily. Your ceiling drywall is
rigidly attached to this vibrating framing, so a millisecond after the footstep slams the floor, the vibration enters your ceiling drywall
and then hits you.
Another problem with vibration entering the ceiling framing is that your walls downstairs are holding up his framing. So his sound is
also entering your room through your walls. This is known as flanking noise. Not as much sound will come through the walls, however
perhaps 5% to 30% of the noise you’re hearing may be coming in through your walls in stereo.
Lastly, there are generally holes in your ceiling for lights, ceiling fans and ventilation. There are also possible flanking paths
that need to be dealt with
For this high level of isolation all 4 Elements of Soundproofing should be deployed: Decoupling, Mass, Absorption and Damping.
Do I treat the noise from the floor or the ceiling?
When designing any soundproofing solution, we would always prefer to treat the noise at its source. This allows us to control and
reduce the (sound) vibration before it enters the building’s framing. If the vibration enters the framing, the very conductive framing
materials can carry that vibration a great distance. If we could treat the floor above to immediately destroy the vibration before it gets
into your ceiling framing, things would be a lot easier. With a hard finished floor above, however, this is generally not possible, and he
probably doesn’t want to help you anyway. So really all you can do is treat the ceiling on your side.